Philadelphia is such a diverse city. One of my favorite parts of being a Philadelphia wedding photographer is experiencing the different ways all its cultures celebrate love! It is an honor to be part of wedding rituals that I’d otherwise not even know existed.
I was inspired to learn more about my favorite multicultural wedding traditions. Here are just a few–check out this Buzzfeed article for a bunch more!
Handfasting
This Celtic tradition is where the phrase “tying the knot” comes from. The couple’s hands are literally tied together with a special ribbon or cord. You can even make your own handfasting cords, if you’re so inclined! This is a popular one at weddings featuring other Irish, Pagan, or Wiccan traditions.
Jumping the Broom
“Jumping the broom” likely originated in Africa. It had its heyday during pre-emancipation America, when slaves were forbidden to marry. Jumping over a broom became a public declaration of a couple’s commitment to one another.
Nowadays, it has become common for African-American couples to use this tradition in their weddings. The broom is often handmade and adorned with ribbons, flowers, and other decorations. It is usually displayed in the couple’s home after the wedding.
Money Dance
The money dance is tons of fun– and it’s a great way to raise cash for the honeymoon fund! Amanda and Nick had one at their wedding reception. Basically, wedding guests pay to have a turn dancing with the bride, usually to a rousing polka or another fun song. The money goes into a basket held by the maid of honor, and guests form a circle around the bride and her dancing partner. At the end, the circle tightens and the groom has to force his way through to his new wife!
Tea Ceremony
A few cultures involve a tea ceremony at some stage in the wedding. The only one I’ve experienced myself is the Chinese tea ceremony, at Christine and Ryan’s wedding. I did a little research beforehand, and I learned so much! For instance, the ceremony customarily serves as the bride’s introduction to the groom’s family.
Nowadays, the tea ceremony is largely symbolic. There are a few variations on it, too. Sometimes the bride’s family is served after the groom’s, and the couple receives red envelopes with money and other gifts from everyone!
Are you incorporating any cultural traditions into your wedding? Tell me about them during our consultation. I’ll make sure I’m an expert by the time the big day arrives!
